We were posting at the same time and I didn't see it before. Thank you for reminding me of the obvious and thank you for reminding me that yes, they do avoid things that make them uncomfortable.
It was partly why he ran in the first place, and why he's still running.
Life, your H, like mine, will say the most illogical things to avoid taking responsibility for anything they've done. Someone else is always to blame. It seems to be a common theme in MLC.
As Cadet said, we're trying to be rational with an irrational person. Save your breath for the time being. He can't hear you right now.
I was going along living my life and hit a bump in the road. Thank you all for your support.