Julia, I'm so sorry I didn't see this until just now. Other than huge hugs and support for whatever you decide, I have no advice for you. You know your parents best and you will decide what you can live with.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!