SA- that is where I am exactley. My H is gettting his family "fix" from his "new" family I believe. Rather than see his own kids which he says is too hard to face he just avoids them. For 3 months. Says he will come and then doesn't. His excuse was I didn't give him a time. Whatever!! THey are his kids and his house. Just an excuse.
He has said "I just can't face them" I told him everyday that goes by it doensn't get any easier.