MLC-Separating-need hwlp with my response

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Back
welcome to the board and sorry for your pain
I know how hard it is

Your question do I go dark or remain friendly???

Good question and I rmember struggling with this for a long time
some go dark right from the start
some start up a new friendly relationship

I think whatever workks best for you right now to help you heal
If you can remain friends and be supportive of his joirney they will prompt a friendship

If you go dark..it will promote distance and he may be more upset because they typically want to keep a foot in both worlds and they want us to forgive them and accept their choices..
will either way work better to bring him home??
I have seen both ways done on the board and I see no way works better
DB says do what works..what brings the R closer??
closer in a MLC way ---Im not sure
take your time and remenber focus on your healing now
peace