Thx cs.

I will do my best to follow the advice.

I needed question answered. I am much clearer headed now. I think after our discussion that we both need a trial sep. I am thinking about this right now and would like feedback. For her, time for her, she came out and said flat out thats what she needed. For me, I need the time apart to heal the wound and make my own life. It's impossible for either one of us, especially me to move forward with the constant proximity. Over the next few months we will be making the house ready for sale, and I will be focussing on job hunt. She will be focussed on learning her new job, and putting money away for first and last months rent.


Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011