JCJ: Just reading this for the first time. UGH - I know how much it affects you when you've been cheated on. I freaked when I found out my next door neighbour (who was so helpful when Chuck cheated on me and left) was cheating on his lovely wife. I was horrified and wanted to bash him - he had seen how hard it was on me!
I think KML has the right idea. I DO think you need to let him know you know. Make him stop acting like the cat who swallowed the canary. These guys always think they're getting away with something. I know my son suspected something shortly before H was found out and it was very hard on him.
Hugs. I really feel for you. It is a lose/lose situation. But only you know what you need to do for yourself.
