I understand. Life kind of serves itself up that way.

If you (or someone else) had told me, at age 43, that my life from that point on would be a sexless one (particularly with my sex-drive), I would have told that person that they were crazy.

Yet, here I am 14 years later. Some points have been lower than others.

The Captain

Last sex: 04/06/1997
Last attempt: 11/11/1997
W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997
W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998
I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds.
Start running again (marathons)