Denver and Country suggested it as a way of demonstrating that I am 'dropping the rope' and to then go dark after that. The last conversation I've had with my W was me being emotional and panicked. So this should be a way of being rational and telling her what I want, in a non pressuring way.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011