Originally Posted By: aeolianchaos
What is your intention behind saying this?



Denver and Country suggested it as a way of demonstrating that I am 'dropping the rope' and to then go dark after that. The last conversation I've had with my W was me being emotional and panicked. So this should be a way of being rational and telling her what I want, in a non pressuring way.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011