I am glad you guys are going out to dinner and spending some time together. It could be a positve step to your ultimate goal or it could be just as country said......keeping it friendly so that you do not go after her in the D.

It is very difficult however to keep expectations in check when things like this are happening in your mind you know what you want but are almost afraid to admitt it. It is natural.

I will say this........

If she wants to recommit I can promise you that she will let her intentions be known and there will be no guessing on your part.

Did she give you any second guessing when it was time to split?

If she wants back in you will have, you must have, the same type of clarity.

So have a nice lunch and dinner but in the end of the day recognize that is all it is.


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