My L had a status conference on Friday with the Judge to let him know that I will be looking for a job in NM and we would like to push the custody evaluation back. The next status conference is set for November 4, 2011.
Hell, the D was originally scheduled to get finalized on September 25. It looks like it will be at least Feb/March of next year before that happens.
This weekend I will be heading back to NM to spend it with my kids. We will be camping until Monday with my sister and her family. It will be a blast.
On Monday we will be having dinner with my W as a family. Just the 4 of us. My W's 40th birthday is the following week and I wanted to do something together. This morning, I asked her if she was up to having dinner next Monday as a family or at the very least lunch with me on Tuesday before I leave. She accepted having dinner and might have lunch with me dependent on a client. I wasn't sure she would accept either. I'll chalk these up as positives.
She has completely changed from 3 weeks ago today. Last weekend when I was in NM, we went to church as a family, had lunch and spent the day together.
I have no idea if it means anything, but I like that things are positive.
Here is something I saved awhile back. I don't know who posted it.
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And the four phases I was taught as a newcomer here were reducing negative emotions, friendship, romance, and recommitment.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
