In some ways this sounds like my SO's behavior. She told me this person she was texting for hours at night was just a friend. I snooped last night and lo and behold I am hit with
"ILY" and all manner of horrible things to imagine your partner of 13 years saying to another person. I am beyond crushed, devastated....I have an appointment tonight with a DB counselor. I hope there is hope. I cannot go through this. I just cannot stand it.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed