You can't say the phrase anymore, "I'm here if you need to (or want to) talk."
She has said over and over that she does not.
You rationalize saying it because you think it means you're being supportive or kind. But she sees it as pursuit.
So true^^^. Plus, why wouldn't she assume you'll be there, forever waiting? You pretty much say that to her. So why should she rush back anyhow?
Tad, you really DO know better. You SAY you are a different man. So You have to let what you changed inside, show on the outside.
Inner changes that don't show on the outside are pretty much Not changes. They're more of the same old/same old. We can talk & talk about "our changes" but if we ACT the same, we are the same.
We are what we do and say. Not what we hope for or meant or wished or thought...but what we do or say. No amount of talk means anything if it doesn't match.
It's also being accountable for what we do and say. Make sense?
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