I have drafted a letter for L to consider tomorrow

Basically the change in the kids schedule is nothing to do with me, personally I am happy having the kids a week each (not as happy as us both seeing them all the time obviously), but the kids want to stay me me 10 out of 14 nights, and that they would be prepared to say this in mediation. Should I put some of the reasons why in the draft?

Also contemplating whether to contest the unreasonable behaviour part, or just let it go so it can progress quicker. I am told unreasonable behaviour can be as simple a not putting the top back on the toothpaste ( always did LOL) so to me seems pointless to challenge, plus would cost loads more to refute each one and challenge. I may need the money to fight for what the kids want, they are priority now during this difficult time, esp with exams coming up.

Any words of wisdom from the BITS prior much appreciated

Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more