Originally Posted By: lc4

It's one thing for her to get her frustrations out in a healthy way; it's another thing completely that she punched you in the process. I suggest you establish some boundaries with her. That's just unacceptable behavior and does more harm than good. Just my 2 cents worth....

I hope otherwise things are going as good as can be expected. Take care, lc4


I agree. I've had some time to reflect and analyze this some. She's had fits of rage and other odd behavior off and on all summer. She's even yelling at the dogs more.

I think there's something clinically wrong with her. I pointed it out last week and she thanked me and said she'd call our doctor, but she hasn't done that yet.

She has some pent up anger about our past and says she can't trust that my changes are real. I figured the hitting and the yelling last week was getting the poison out. Our daughter was in bed and the punches didn't hurt, so I didn't see the harm letting her do it.

She's apologized a dozen times since.

But yeah, something is wrong and I don't know what to do.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012