You can't say the phrase anymore, "I'm here if you need to (or want to) talk."
She has said over and over that she does not.
You rationalize saying it because you think it means you're being supportive or kind. But she sees it as pursuit.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
