Thanks for your welcome on my thread in this forum. It's not a fun place to be, but at least I know I'm in good company.
I briefly read up on your sitch, and it sounds like our spouses have quite a bit in common. I applaud you at being so strong in establishing and keeping your boundaries. I'm pretty much a flunkie when it comes to boundaries. I am reading "Journey from Abandonment to Healing" and it is really helping me get through the incredible waves of pain.
Continue to stay strong. I'll be checking in on you. Take care, lc4
