Wii: Sometimes in order to move forward we need to know that someone else finds us loveable. Because our spouses sure killed that feeling for us. It boosts our self esteem. We know that we are still "ok".
She likes you. I think that is wonderful. I hope this pushes you forward and you can put your life with your ex in the past.
For me - a divorce was necessary. I did not do it for moral, ethical or legal reasons. I did it for ME! I did it because it gave me the closure I needed.