Wife came home late 1:15 from what she said was a work function. I confronted her about her whereabouts. Told her that I was unhappy. I asked her if she was still involved with OM, she said she still talked to him. Then she asked me if i was involved with someone else, i replied no. (im sure she was referring to me being out late on thursday night, and my constant use of my ipad to read the forums and self help books) I told her that this situation was not working anymore for me and that if she wanted to continue to live in this house with me and our kids, her extramarital "friendships" had to end. I told her that I couldnt trust her anymore and that if she wanted out, I was prepared to sell the house and be done with it. I told her I was very serious about this. I feel much better after confronting her. I have been holding this back and thinking on it for sometime now. I feel much better. Truthfully, it was long overdue. Either way, whatever her choice, I'm ok. It's no life living with someone who you feel is disrespecting you by carrying on an inappropriate relationship in front of you.

I feel like a huge burden has been released.

Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011