Oh gosh, MWG, so sorry to hear about your S. I really hope this is a wake up call for him to straighten his life out. It's so sad that his F is such a poor example to him. It makes me cry to see this happen to your S. Hopefully, he won't get such a long sentence, maybe they could make him go to rehab or something, because prison does nothing to help kids like him. I will pray for you to recover financially and find work, your S, that everything continues to go well for your other kids, and for your H, that he finally reaches out for help. God bless you, you've been through way too much. vc