Well, I just got home and I'm still smiling. It was such a wonderful seven hours together. She's so much fun! We talked, we laughed and were just so at ease with each other. I forgot to be nervous! We went to the town of Unionville, which is a little town N or Toronto and we walked through the boutiques. We stopped for desserts at a patio, watched a classical music concert in the park, then went down to the pond. Afterwards we went and had dinner at a patio restaurant. We talked the whole time, it was great. I drove her home and she took me in to meet her housemates (Asian women will not do that unless they really like you).So I hung around there for a bit. Finally, I suggested I go home and she walked me to my car. I said "I had such a good time, I really enjoyed being with you" and she said "Me too" We made plans to do something together next week together and said goodnight. She stood and giggled and I rubbed her arms. No goodnight kiss. That can wait, I'm very careful of the "don't go too fast code" although I think I might have got a kiss if I went for it. In good time.
She told me her story in the car on the way to Unionville. She has no husband, her child was born out of wedlock, she refused to marry the father as he was fooling around on her. Her father left her mother when she was two and she only saw him again twice in her life. Her mom raised her two sisters, brother and her on her own and she, MM, "doesn't need any man to look after her, she can take care of herself". And damn, if she can't, when she wants to do something she does it. I told her my story, I left out the part where wife decided to bat for the other team. But I told her that I've been separated for 4 years and as of yet have not filed for divorce. I think we both laid it out pretty honestly.
I had such a great time today. I'm so happy!


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White