Living with your Ex

[25yearsmlc]

Pickle

For now, I Just wanted to answer your questions about the workshop I was referring to elsewhere. I am a bit hesitant to post about it here, b/c I don't want to sound like an advertisement for them.
& BTW, No, I do not get paid or compensated in any way for talking about it or getting someone to go, or anything like that.

Anyway, It's called "Essential Experience" and I think the original founder was David Crump. I think the present conductor is Eric Hoffman.

Essential Experience, or "EE", is a personal growth workshop. It's designed for those who are ready to SEE their life in a fresh way, to CHANGE their life where desired, to Gain Clarity about their life's direction, and to live a life of intention. [b]And from all this hard work, will come a peace & clarity within probably previously unknown in your life.

Essential Experience ("EE") is Not EST or Landmark or a "new religion" or any other...therapy thing or group.

You just need to look them up on their website and see what you think.

But I know enough of your sitch to tell you this, it'll help YOU - A LOT.
[b]No one can attend this, and NOT be changed. But you have to go for YOU...your w will see the changes i you and that's where teh value lies. The changs in you. I never expected my h to go just b/c I went. I went for ME...but heck, after he saw me get off the plane he said "something was different about you, 25"...and he was right. And like I said, we were in a great place then. HE had no "reason" to go. I was wrong of course. We had no idea how much closer we could get and we never had the tools for getting there, til EE. H told me that his going was the "best gift h had ever gotten in his life."...dang...this is not a man who is touchy feely about things. Only goes to T b/c I dragged him...but EE...he loved it.

Unlike many personal growth workshops, EE does NOT press you to recruit others, or sell, or...whatever. It's not a cult. There are no "followers". It's not nutty.

And the costs of it are cheaper than other workshops, AND cheaper than that many hours of therapy are, and it's more "efficient" than therapy.
See, here's the thing Pickle.

When I went to see my T, whom I adored, and deeply valued...sometimes I would make a breakthrough. Maybe a serious insight--sometimes leading to tears-- or I had a lightbulb moment, some big deal would happen for me in therapy... and then...oops, gotta go back to work, or pick the kids up and blah blah blah -- real life interrupted my looking at my life. It was so...slow...

But EE isn't like that. You get the work DONE. You leave with an action plan. You can have and give follow up support if you want it (free).

They have a website under "Essential Experience". Obviously I recommend it.
I know your sitch (and will comment later on it)

Despite the difficulties you face, I promise you that you will come out of EE with some clarity, peace, and yes, even some joy.

That's how highly I think of it, and how ready I think you are to take charge of your life. (Not everyone is).

((( )))

ps
I swear---I swear I don't get a kick back!!