Their A has been over since May so he has been getting over it since then. He knows why they happened as far as how he sees it. Not sure what you mean. He says he fell in love with her, let his friendship with her go too far because he was not happy in our marriage and with how things were with us. I was not the same person for a long time. I was acting unhappy and complaining about work and everything since we had moved here. It was about a year in the making. I just did not realize how bad things had gotten. I look back at some e-mail traffic between us and there was the warrnings but I just did not see them then. He did try to be supportive for a very long time and then he did try to tell me how he was feeling too. Again, I really did not listen. I know the A was not my fault but the problems in our marraige were. He should not have gone that far with it but that is why he did in his mind. So he knows. Things are really coming around now. He brought home some wine from our town where we stationed in Italy when we were very happy. He was very excited about it. The words will come. I can wait since I know they will come.
