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is this then just a bit of tit for tat?


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I also don't to be so "cold"


Are your actions coming from a place of love?

If so... then....

bitterness?

Then...

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tell em I love em and beyond that, wouldn't be able to participate.


Remember this?

You already did the first part. And you can keep doing it without saying it again.

And then...

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wouldn't mind Starsky's take but he probably gave up on me a long time ago.


He stayed with me for 6 months.

He'll be back wink


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