Once again Tad, I find myself seeing and agreeing with 25 on this. Do yourself a favor and re-read that post until it sinks in.
Don't read into things, and continue to detach. Be the man you are, and stop worrying about your actions towards your spouse. That worry is killing you and in the end, your chances of being happy and therefore ....
Focus on you Tad. The rest will take care of itself, and until you believe that, you will be unattractive and generally no fun to be around. At a subconscious level if nothing else.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
