I finally responded with 'he was, I've got some good and funny memories of him' to which she said 'me too, have a good weekend down the coast'
Ok, thats it now....dark for me. I actually prefer not to hear from her, every time i do it just makes me edgy and sad. I will send the letter next week and that's it. I am really committed to this, and will try to deflect her coming to the house for a few weeks. Should be easy as I'm overseas most weekends for the next month.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011