I finally responded with 'he was, I've got some good and funny memories of him' to which she said 'me too, have a good weekend down the coast'

Ok, thats it now....dark for me. I actually prefer not to hear from her, every time i do it just makes me edgy and sad. I will send the letter next week and that's it. I am really committed to this, and will try to deflect her coming to the house for a few weeks. Should be easy as I'm overseas most weekends for the next month.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011