thank you for the input, it does help.

we split the kids 50/50 so what i meant was before the kids were staying in the house, i had 3 nights week without kids. i didnt go out, usually i would watch a movie or study or sleep.

as far as the house, it should read more this way ' before the house was lost, she... '

i tried to keep the house, didnt work out with just my income and 2 houses to support with the kids 50% of the time.


still have not heard from her. all i can do is act as if when she does contact me, and not ask R questions or OM questions. i cant pick up the rope, no more tug of war.