Wow! No words. My husband has been gone three months tomorrow after a similar speech (bored, grass is greener, feels numb, etc). I've spent most of today in tears but this is now becoming a rarity compared to the first few weeks.
Do you have kids? Have you read DB or DR? I'd suggest you STOL letting him stay two nights at your place. If he doesn't want you anymore then he needs to move on and look after himself. How are you supposed to heal with him coming and going?
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11