Walk away spouse- what else can I do?

[Handler]

She's out for the weekend with our kids for a family gathering. I'm heading out to a friend's to get some advice on responding to her filing. I appears I'll have a month or so before the court removes one of us (probably me) from our house due to her filing. I don't know if there's enough time left for my continuuing 180 to change her mind but I'm enjoying my changes and they feel right, if not easy to do. She has commented that I've been an exemplary husband but she still says she wants out on her own with our kids.

We've had some uncomfortable brief talks about finances after I discovered some irregularities in our back accounts. Nothing major but it's hard to trust her and I found that I couldn't hold back from asking about them. This asking doesn't follow sandi2's list of do and dont's I'm afraid but I can't let her walk over me.

She has been on a roller coaster this past week. Sometimes happy to see me and happy in communicating but other times distant. There are times when I feel there is hope for us but other times when it feels like I'm in an impossible mission.