You posted on my thread a while ago and mentioned that you are living with your ex, is that true? I started a thread in "Surviving the Big D" called "Living with you Ex" (I don't know how to put a link in here. I thought it might be helpful for someone who is actually going through this to post their thoughts in there.
For my own benefit, I am going to go through all of your threads in the next couple days. As an effort to get endless and constant DB opportunities, I suggested to my H that we live together if he pursues D and he agreed that would be best for the kinds and financially.
Hope you are doing well, I will read your thread and talk to you more probably.
And BTW it is in "Divorced, But not Done" not "Surviving the Big D"
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Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."