I agree, I am giving too many inputs. Laurie told me the same. I am a talker and a problem solver though and I love a challenge and I love to try new things so it is extremely hard for me to Keep it simple, stupid. I nearly made that mistake, luckily, I left my list at work. I will put it off as long as I can so that I have adequate time to think it through and I will simplify it, force him to do the thinking. I need to just listen and stop giving advice and input.

Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5
T: 15/ M: 8
Rock bottom: 4/11
ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before
Gaining acceptance: 8/11

You must be the change you wish to see. - Mahatma Gandhi