You have to love yourself before you can love another. Three months on and I'm still struggling to let go of the mistakes I made. My counsellor said I'm stilling struggling with the should have's, the could have's and the would have's. I do wish I could turn back time and be a better wife, but at the end of the day I can't and our spouses made a decision. They didn't have to do what they did - but they did. It's tough and I'm struggling today with the fact that my M is over and the chances of ever being with H again are slim.


H 34, W 36
T 13.5
M 8.5
C 6yo twins
S 6/5/11
OW 7/6/11
OW moves in 9/18/11