I keep coming back to even if I was not in this other relationship I am not sure I would want to dig a little because of the potential for pain.
The truth is, I asked the question. But based on just your first post it is obvious there is some desire.
Now whether it is worth opening up for it. Is another question.
In a lot of ways. I feel we have delt with the emotional side of this in similar ways. I can also "box up."
Can it stay boxed forever? I'm not so sure.
I guess the other question I have. Is this the time to even open that box at all?
Perhaps not.
It is a nice gesture on her part. I think it has to feel good for you to hear this.
But for NOW. It's all it is.
A simple reply like you mentioned is probably appropriate.
Maybe I am just self reflecting. I just keep thinking about what is kept in the box. When to face it. What will it mean? TBH. For me. Not even sure what is in it.
But you have stated fear in opening it back up. So it must be something.
Like I said. It's a hell of a position.
Be well man. Enjoy BIG Friday
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