You are absolutely right, it was my trust issue shining through. It's her business, not mine. And that's why I didn't ask anything about her "friend" 'cuz it's none of my business. She did bring it up and explain it but I just hope it wasn't because of my nosiness the previous day. And yes, Barb my trust is pretty low for any woman right now, I know that. This is the first time I've ventured out and all these feelings are hitting me from all angles!lol. But tonight I'm feeling good and looking forward to our afternoon tomorrow. I bought a new shirt tonight so she'd see me in something she hasn't seen before. My way of saying "hey, I want to look nice for you" Anyway, I'm hoping that much of my anxiety will have passed now, the antibiotics the doctor gave me for Bronchitis have finally kicked in and I'm feeling human again. It's tough trying to fathom the world of women and dating while your crapped out with bronchitis. But tonight all is well!