I remember all to well when my daughter turned 13 which was 2 weeks after she discovered that her mom was having a second affair right after Mom told her that the first was the biggest mistake she had ever made.
It sux trying to pick up the destruction the MLCer create.....As if YOUR pain is not enough. I know you hurt for your daughter.
Just try to be the very best Mom you can to her......she will never forget it.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.