I have been following your thread even though I've been "laying low" this summer.
GAG, I was wondering about you the other day.......so good to hear from you. Sometimes layin' low is good.
I hope things are well with you!!!
Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
Do you know what XW wrote to your D? Have you talked to D's therapist to ask about the best way to handle that with D?
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No, I do not know what she wrote her. The letter is with me, I will give it to her tonight. We are going to a High School football game tonight.......FUN!!! Can't believe she is in HIGH SCHOOL!!!
Anyway, I am not sure how she will handle whatever her mother has written to her. Typically my D14's reaction to her mother's attempts to connect are "TOO LITTLE, TOO LATE".
My D14 does ask the question aloud to me......."Does she get it??? Does she realize what she has done/is doing??"
Up until today, my answer has been, "I don't know".
Fortunately, my D14 has an appt. with the therapist next week.
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