Wow TM, I am sorry to read about your sitch. There seems to be similarities with all of our stories.
The breakfast could be interesting. Try not to have any expectations, because frankly it sounds like anything could happen.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012