Ok I won't say that I won't make love with someone before I marry them bu I totally understand it. It was a big deal for me when I was growing up and not because I had some fear of God or sin or whatever. It was a choice I made. Not everyone that doesn't want to jump in bed on the third date has a low sex drive. Such BS.
For a lot of us out here sex means something besides a good time. If you are so focused on what a good lay they are, you may fail to see what a liar they are, how irresponsible with their money, how they have no goals, but hey good sex is what you are after. You are making your bed, good thing you get to lay in it.
Sorry this thinking makes me think of teenagers and not adults. I have a healthy sex drive and no, I haven't been with anyone since my divorce. Oh, there MUST be something wrong with me. Actually there isn't. I can take care of that myself if need be, but I have been busy getting 4 kids back to a balanced place in their own lives.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
