An Apology from my MLC ex-wife

[MHL]

Thanks Beatrice,

Her actions have changed somewhat over the last couple of weeks but since our interactions are limited, it would be a stretch to say that her actions mirror the sincerity of her apology.

The other thing is that I really do not "look" at what she does or says too much anyway.......I really just don't care.

Do you have any desire to try and R your M?

CS,

I really don't care enough to think about it. Sure I have thought about the "possibility" of it and just feel that it would not work.....

even if she could do all the things I would need or want her to do I am not sure that the demons would not come a callin' years from now if we were to reconcile.

The other point here and it really is a separate issue is that I have been dating a woman for the last 9 months and it is going well. There are no wedding bells in the future yet but we are a committed couple.

I feel that my response to my XW should be the same no matter if

I wanted to reconcile
I was dating someone
I was alone
I did not want to reconcile

I am trying to be "true" to myself while at the same time protecting ME.

I did not answer your question.................

I would want to reconcile if.................

THAT IS WHERE I GET STUCK. (Maybe I could look at your paper for the answer)

~C