Agreed. AC you can only control you. And the things you are worrying about are far into the future and they most likely won't happen the way you are imagining any way.
One day at a time my friend!
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012