I hear ya Tal...there are a few things that I feel strongly about, maybe not deal breaker issues, but to me, important ones that I laid out for my H early on in THIS reconciliation/cohabitation. I've asked my H on at least 3 occassions over the past 6 months and at least once in the past month that he have ALL his mail rerouted to our home address from his office and post office. I've YET to see it happen. I've even told him that if he's ashamed of some of the debt that he accrued during OUR 'down time' that he need not discuss them with me unless he needs help sorting thru it...but otherwise I have no desire to 'pry' into his finances...each time we've had this talk (or to be more exact...that I've had this talk) he yeses me to death...but that's it.
It angers me when he blows me off with a passive aggressive yes. It makes me suspicious, nervous etc...to me his moving ALL his bills etc back to the house is a sign of 'permanency' and his refusal to do so...is a sign (to me anyway) that he's keeping that one foot in the door just in case....
So I completely understand the frustration of the 'sure I will Honeys"...only to see NO ACTION on their part afterwards. T2
