WTF?!?! - Artpay Otway

[Denver_2010]

Denver,

I still visit these boards, I'm divorced and very happy in another relationship so take what I say with a pinch of salt.

You have had so much good advice you are one of the lucky ones, your wife is still invested,just see how angry she gets, that my friend believe it or not is your biggest asset.

Have faith in yourself to be yourself and watch the results.

Search for a guy named Nomopo, don't know what happend to him but every time I read your sitch he pops im my head

In the words of the guy I admired the most (Bworl)

Blessings
Charlie

Thanks for stopping by Charlie. Deep down I understand that my W's anger towards me is a sign that she is still invested... that she still cares.

But it is also the number one obstacle for her to give us a chance. She has to figure out how to get past the anger... to forgive me for the past.

My goal for the past nine months has been to deprive her anger of the fuel that it needed.

It's tough balance doing that while also standing up for myself and having boundaries.

I just need to figure it out.

I will look up Nomopo.

I've spent that past two nights reading Jack3beans' threads. Wow, the parallels between his sitch and mine are kinda scary.

Thanks again Charlie!

Denver