Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Denver,

"reaching out" to her now = pushing her away.

Don't forget.

Your Consistent changes + Time = change SHE CAN believe in.


She MAY not choose to believe in the changes, but she sure as heck won't believe you if you keep drawing lines in the sand

and then crossing them.


25 & CS... thank you guys. I know that you are both correct. I cannot reach out to her.

I have drawn my line in the sand and I must adhere to it.

I need to give this time.

Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce