Do what I can but still have questions 3

[soccerwife]

I was just forced to write on paper what my plan is: I won't agree to D, I wish H to go to MC/IC, I will stay in house with kids. I also offered that I will attempt to remain friendly regardless of H's decision and gave him pointers at keeping things amicable.

I have to deliver this paper to him in the near future. I don't know how long I should put it off, I wish it could be forever. However, he will get angry and feel I don't care about his feelings if I don't hold up my end of the deal. I promised I would give him a paper with my plans and he said he would try to remain patient, I guess that means I have to do it. I think I will wait until after I have my next MC session and maybe I talk to my DB coach again.