Tal,

No need to apologize for your "problems" seeming insignificant next to some other bber's woes...this IS the PIECING forum, and your issue with Wolfie's intimacy (or lack thereof) is exactly the kind of thing we work on when, as you say, we're trying to build a BETTER marriage.

I can't recall the name...seattleman?...but his insights are real good. The flat out ask, and make it simple and specific!

I like Sage's approach too...where the intimacy grew out of other positives.

Tal, the sausage comment made me laugh. BOTH CJ and I have (if memory serves me...it's been a WHILE ) have just finished ML, a stomach growls...and one of us will say "breakfast special!" (at our fav weekend restaurant)...off we go.

Other times, we'll just snuggle up and fall back to sleep. Not much talking during, either, which I'd like more of...more DOING would be good to...

See what I mean, Tal? This ARE piecing issues.

Shiny