Beatrice, thank you for your post.

I was thinking about what you posted previously about your X being hurt that his children didn't acknowledge him on holidays, years later.

I do believe he has no idea how this has hurt D, but the sane part of me just can't wrap my head around it.

Something interesting about the ow's D. While on vacation back in April the ow's D took my D aside and told her that she felt what H and ow did was not right and was sorry for the pain that it caused my D.