I didn't ask H about his C appointment last night. It's none of my business, unless he brings it up because I don't want him to feel pressured to share what was discussed.
E, I would say you handled this perfectly.
Originally Posted By: Endeavour
But something needs to change in this M.
Lack of communication and withdrawing got us here and it's certainly isn't going to get us out.
This is a very true - valid point. However, I think it's going to take some time to change course.
Originally Posted By: Endeavor
Can't control H though so I'll just continue to make plans without him.
This is a good perspective. Use this to GAL.
Originally Posted By: Endeavor
I just wish I could be rid of this constant anxiety though. It's unrelenting and I feel like I'm always on edge. Ah well, I guess it's normal given the circumstances.
Oh, I know this feeling way too well. Psych has good point. The more you can GAL, the better you will feel. Also, if you can detach from your H's emotions, that will also help. You're right, too. This is normal to feel this way. You are living in very stressful conditions.
