The fast track down the elevator to hit bottom, IS REALLY FAST these days.
She called you to say her life sukks and she's sorry for all the pain she's caused. and I'm shocked, SHOCKED I TELL YOU...
Alright, sorry for the jokes. Except I'm only a little sorry b/c humor on the DB site often saved me from a miserable time.
Seeing the wacky MLC behaviors - even the sad tear filled calls, Or the angry spewing, all the wacky stuff is just so damn predictable, it's now, officially, cliched. Good grief, none of this occurred to her BEFORE now? Still, she has had a glimpse of the pain and damage SHE has and IS inflicting.
Yes, despite the nightmare aspects, this IS a "positive". Don't lose sight of that. Anyhow, YOU did well Tel, as well as anyone with 2 seconds notice could have. And as usual, you held onto your dignity and quiet strength.
The vengeance part of you, which is small or non-existent in you, could have said "W, these are called consequences..." but nope, not you! You didn't point out consequences b/c you are a great man AND b/c You don't have to.
I love the love you show her, even as she wounds you. I admire the strength you continue to discover within.
When the dust settles, you are going to be soooo much more than alright. But for now, it's dusty. And it hurts. Sorry for that, Tel.
Continue to hold your head high.
You'll never regret being a man of honor and strength
or treating her with respect she may not always deserve, b/c of who you are (or have become?) YOU will have no regrets. I'm proud of you.
Hang in there, & Save your strength for what I think is coming...Soon. Big Hugs my friend ((( )))
PS
The more I hear, the more I am sorry about the OM's mom. God help her. That's just a sad part of this for which there are no jokes. Hope things for HER work out somehow...no matter what else goes on. And SS... SIGH...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
