Living with your Ex

[aeolianchaos]

I can't imagine doing that. But I don't have kids, and I'm not in your situation.

I think there are benefits to either.

DBing is about changing yourself. That could be harder to do with him around every day. Especially at first, you might need that space for some 'pain time.' Might be easier w/ a little less face time.

Did your coach talk w/ you about this?

I'm no lawyer, but you should figure that whatever occurs, PA law has a 90 day period after both parties have signed paperwork.

Either way, meet with a L. and make sure that you and your kid's rights are being protected.

People can do some pretty underhanded things - so keep DBing, but make sure that you are going to be OK legally.