Do what I can but still have questions 3

[a girl]

Soccer, I'm sorry, but I can't remember - is your H having an affair?

And, I also understand where you're at - I'm in a similar spot. I want him to regret his choices, and sometimes it really bothers me that maybe he never will. I want to believe that there will come a time when he looks back and realises how awful he's been, but ... it seems too unlikely.