Thanks Country (and Denver).....I am prepared to write her a quick note saying that and then have no contact. I'm actually finding it easier to have no contact with her now, as I just feel every time there is contact it ends bad and its not what I want to hear, so in a way I prefer the silence. Phone conversations never end well. The best contact we have had was in mid July for breakfast when we got on so well as friends before she went to the States. And anyway in her words, she feels it is better to not have any contact as it would 'give me false hope'.
I really am pushing it uphill here with what I'm battling against!!
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011